It *is* mine, dammit!

SO this time, entrippy has said a lot of what I was going to, but I figured out last night what was bothering me about madi's position in this thread .
It's the mention of "public spaces". Because the WWW, and more specifically my LJ page isn't a public space. I know, you're all saying "He's gone *crazy* !". But it's true. ( Bear with me here. )

All analogies suck.

SO let me step for a moment into concrete examples, and also clarify what I'm *not* saying.

( What do *you* want, Jai? )